B.P.O.E.: Benevolent Protective Order of Elks
F.L.T.: with each letter in a link of a chain: Friendship, Love and Truth (see I.O.O.F.)
F.O.E.: Fraternal Order of Eagles
G.A.R.: Grand Army of the Republic. It was an organization of Civil War Union Army veterans.
I.O.O.F.: International Order of Odd Fellows (see F.L.T.).
V.D.M.: verbi Dei minister (Minister of the Word of God).
W.O.W.: Woodmen of the World. Upright tree stump markers are typical of the fraternity.
Cenotaph: not a grave marker; a cenotaph is a monument erected in memory of someone who died elsewhere, perhaps at sea.
Consort: a woman who outlived her husband.
Relict: a woman who died a widow.
Anchors and ships: hope or seafaring profession
Arches: victory in death
Arrows: mortality
Broken column: loss of head of family
Broken ring: family circle severed
Bugles: military (see also Trumpeters)
Butterfly: short-lived; early death
Candle being snuffed: time, mortality
Cherub: angelic
Compass and square: Masonic emblems
Corn: ripe old age
Cross: symbol of Christian hope
Crossed swords: officer in the military
Darts: mortality
Doves: the soul, purity, innocence, gentleness
Father Time: mortality, the Grim Reaper
Flowers: brevity of existence, sorrow
Flowers: condolence, grief, sorrow
Flying Birds: flight of the soul
Fruits: eternal plenty
Garlands: victory in death
Hand(s) of God Chopping: sudden death
Handshakes: farewell to Earthly existence
Harp: praise to the Maker
Hearts: blissfulness or love of Christ
Hourglass with wings: time flying; short life
Hourglass: swiftness of time
Ivy: friendship and immortality
Lamb: innocence
Laurel: fame or victory
Lily or lily of valley: emblem of innocence and purity
Morning glory: beginning of life
Oak leaves and acorn: maturity, ripe old age
Open book or Bible: deceased teacher, minister, etc.
Palm branch: signifies victory and rejoicing
Picks and shovels: mortality
Poppy: sleep, military remembrance
Portals: passageway to eternal journey
Rose in full bloom: prime of life
Rosebud: morning of life or renewal of life
Roses: brevity of mortal life
Sheaf of wheat: ripe for harvest, divine harvest time
Shells: pilgrimage of life
Stars and stripes around eagle: eternal vigilance, liberty
Sun: the soul's resurrection
Thistles: remembrance
Tombs: mortality
Torch inverted: life extinct
Tree stump with ivy: head of family; immortality
Trees: life
Trumpeters: heralds of the soul's resurrection
Urn with flame: undying friendship
Urn with wreath or crepe: mourning
Willows: emblem of sorrow
Winged effigies: flight of the soul
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